• Get Started With Baby Pottying

EASY START GUIDE: PART 1 OF 4

Learn how to start baby pottying, also known as Elimination Communication (EC) or early potty learning.

Baby pottying is a gradual way support your baby’s toilet awareness from an early age.

Many parents find they can observe patterns or cues that suggest when their baby needs to wee or poo, just as they learn to recognise signals for hunger or tiredness. Instead of relying entirely on nappies, parents offer their baby opportunities to use the potty (often called a “pottytunity”).

Can Babies Really Use the Potty?

In many Western cultures, the common approach is to wait for signs of “readiness” before starting potty training. As a result, most babies spend their early years using a nappy as their primary toilet, before being expected to suddenly switch to using the potty.

Baby pottying takes a different approach. One that our ancestors practised, along with many other cultures throughout the world today, and the growing number of parents, child experts and institutes who are rediscovering and seeing the benefits of starting young. 

It recognises that babies are born with an awareness of their bodily functions and a natural desire to stay clean and dry. Just as babies gradually learn to walk and talk through practice and exposure, toileting is another developmental skill that can develop over time.

Why Parents Choose Baby Pottying

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Build a deeper connection

Develop babies’ communication

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Cost and environmental benefits

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Reduce colic

Reduce fussiness
and crying

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Quicker potty independence

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Encourage positive body awareness

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Less nappy rash

Supports breastfeeding

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More hygienic

When Can You Start?

The simple answer is: you can start at any age.

There is no single “right” time to begin. Many parents start when their baby is a newborn, while others discover baby pottying later. Whatever the age, start when you feel ready and at your own pace. 

From birth to 3 months

This is often when babies’ natural toileting signals are usually strongest. Parents may notice clear signals before their baby wees or poos.

From 3 to 12 months

Babies begin to form routines and may communicate more actively (with sounds, gestures, or expressions). Your baby may go through periods of being more or less interested in potty time, which is all part of the journey. 

After 12 months

The principles of baby pottying still apply, however it may take longer to reacquaint your baby with their bodily awareness. Some choose to use a hybrid approach: baby pottying techniques alongside conventional toilet training methods. 

How Do You Know When Your Baby Needs to Go?

There are three paths to pottying: 

Natural timing

This path makes up the everyday timings and rhythm of the day. Includes upon waking, after feeds, before/after bath, being in the carseat, pram or baby carrier.

Signals

Non-verbal and verbal communication babies make to indicate they need to go. There is a huge variety of signals, so it’s key that you learn your baby’s unique signals just before they do a wee or poo.

Intuition

Having a thought or feeling that your baby needs to go, e.g. the “phantom wee”—feeling a warm patch, when baby hasn’t actually peed. 

Many parents begin with just one or two predictable potty opportunities, such as after waking up, after feeds, or before/after bath time.

Offer the potty, and see what happens.

You don't need to catch everything—the goal is simply to start building awareness and communication.

A Simple Way To Start

Your Next Steps to Start Pottying Your Baby

PART 1

Get Started With Baby Pottying  

YOU ARE HERE

PART 2

What Are My Babies Signals?

PART 3

How To Hold Your Baby: Potty Positions.

PART 4

Cueing: Sound Associations.

Download my easy-start information as an offline PDF guide to print and share with your loved ones!

Included: benefits, what age to start, potty positions, when baby needs to go and common signals.

Let’s make this ancient wisdom feel second nature again.

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What You’ll Learn

The philosophy behind baby pottying, exploring global traditions, historical shifts, and the beliefs that shaped modern potty training.

The science of pottying, from bladder and bowel development, to what the research says about “readiness,” muscle control and long-term health.

Clear guidance to get started, including when to begin, how to spot signals, natural timings, positioning, cueing and building a daily rhythm.

How to navigate real life, with guidance on nighttime, out-and-about pottying, childcare, siblings and busy family life.

Supporting your baby’s development, covering capability stages, fostering independence, temperament differences and going nappy-free.

Troubleshooting common hurdles, including potty pauses, resistance, missed catches, illness, developmental leaps and feeling overwhelmed.

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Product Recommendations

Whilst you don’t need any special products to get started with, check out the products that have helped me along the journey.

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